Once you’ve bought a house, you’ll need to adapt and settle into your new space. Meeting and making friends with your neighbors is an important part of making your new digs feel like home.
If you’re unsure how to get out there and meet your neighbors, don’t despair. Here are the seven best and easiest ways to start positive neighborly relations.
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Smile and Say “Hi”
Being friendly and approachable is one of the easiest ways new residents of all ages can start connecting with their neighbors. Say hello as you’re carrying in your groceries, getting your mail, or any other time you run into neighbors. Also remember to mind your manners when you first move in. Keep the loud parties, music, and revving engines to a minimum, so the neighbors don’t get a negative impression before they even meet you.
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Knock on a Door or Two
Be bold and knock on a neighbor’s door to introduce yourself. Ask a question about the neighborhood, compliment them on their flowers, or use another icebreaker to get to know them a bit. Only stay a few minutes and let the relationship grow from there.
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Take a Walk
Strolling the block is an easy way to come across your neighbors and engage in conversation. You’re sure to run into other people walking after dinner, which gives you the chance to introduce yourself and start making friends.
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Lend a Hand
If you see a neighbor struggling to carry a big package or cleaning up their yard, pop over and help them manage the load. They’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness and remember how nice you are, which will hopefully get you invited to their next get-together.
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Work in Your Yard
Finding reasons to be outside gives you a better chance of running into your neighbors. Plant some flowers around your mailbox, pressure wash the driveway, or weed your flower beds. Don’t worry, someone’s bound to come along and give you a break!
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Get Involved
If the neighborhood has an online group, join it to help you get the lay of the land. Start volunteering for cleanup days and attending other events to get to know your neighbors. This approach puts you in touch with other like-minded folks you’ll probably hit it off with.
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Throw a Party
Buy some appetizers, chill some drinks, put on some music, and invite a few of your neighbors over for a mixer. It doesn’t have to be everyone in the neighborhood. You can keep it to the households around you or the ones on your street. Chances are other people will be just as excited to connect as you are.
Whether you’re a first-time buyer, a family on your second or third home, or an empty-nester, these tips can help you connect with your new neighbors and start building good relationships. Who knows? Your next best friend may be two doors down!